Why Confidence Matters When Communicating in English

Many professionals say: “I cannot express myself well in English. I don’t feel confident.”
If this sounds familiar, you are not alone.

Confidence, not perfect grammar, is what allows you to express yourself clearly.

When you feel confident:

• Your mind relaxes

• Your fluency increases

• You use the English you already know more effectively

• You experience small wins that reinforce your confidence.

But when confidence is low, the opposite happens. Nervousness leads to more mistakes, frustration, and a downward spiral.

Confidence Comes With Practice and Training

One reason learners hesitate is because they want to sound like a native speaker or use perfect grammar.

But perfection isn’t realistic — and it isn’t necessary.

Confidence develops when you:

• Use English regularly

• Practice in safe, low-pressure situations

• Train both your mind and your body (mouth, lips, tongue, breathing)

• Start building familiar patterns and rhythms through repetition.

Start small
Practice by:

• reading aloud : a short article, a few pages of a novel

• thinking in English : imagine yourself asking for directions, replying to a question

• talking to yourself, your pet, or even your plants: ask questions, tell a story.

Then practice with supportive people such as friends, colleagues, teachers, before moving to more challenging situations.

Each small step builds competence. Competence builds confidence.

Practical Ways to Build Your Confidence

Here are four powerful habits to incorporate into your daily routine:

1. Try not to focus on mistakes : Aim to connect, not to impress.

2. Listen actively: Pay attention to the rhythm, stress, and intonation of fluent speakers.

3. Reflect on your progress: Keep a note of times where communication went well.
   Celebrate these wins.

4. Practice regularly: Just 15 minutes a day can make a meaningful difference.

Try This Today

Next time you join a conversation in English, set one simple goal, such as:

• I will ask one question

• I will contribute one idea.

When you achieve it, acknowledge it. Confidence grows through small, consistent victories.

Originally published in the Communicate with Confidence LinkedIn newsletter